Flowers in Japan

No Tipping but Kokorozuke

kokorozukeAlthough there is generally no tipping in Japan, some people do give the attendants or cooks some money as a sign of appreciation when staying in the traditional Japanese inns known as ryokan or at traditional restaurants.

This money, known as kokorozuke, is usually placed in special envelopes which can be purchased at a stationer’s rather than being handed over unvrapped. Some people give kokorozuke to their maid, driver or the employee at festivals or other special occasions, as a kind of informal bonus in addition to the one the employees receive with their pay, placing it in an envelope known as shuugibukuro obtainable from stationer’s.

At theatres, baseball grounds and other places of entertainment, bonuses for full houses are sometimes given to the staff in envelopes known as ouribukuro. However, there is absolutely no tipping at hotels, modern restaurants, stations, airports and other modern facilities.

Japanese Clothes

Kimono

Kimono

If you visit Japan, do not expect to see the streets full of “samurai, 侍” or “geisha, 芸者”. The lifestyle of Japanese has today become almost completely westernized. But beneath Japan’s fast-moving, ultra-modern exterior, its unique culture and customs, shaped by centuries of tradition, live on.

Japan’s traditional garment, the “kimono” , is well suited to the climate and natural features of the country. However, except on certain formal occasions, the only people who wear “kimono” nowadays are elderly people and those in certain traditional professions.

Kimono now are merely used by both men and women at weddings, and young women wear them at New Year or at Coming-of-Age ceremonies (“seijin shiki,成人式”).

People who normally wear kimono are:

  1. Traditional comic story tellers (rakugoka, 落語家)
  2. Sumo wrestlers (sumotori,すも取)
  3. Buddhist priests (obosan,お坊さん)
  4. Waitresses (nakai,仲居) in traditional Japanese restaurants or hotels (ryoutei(料亭) or ryokan(旅館)).

Since Japan has four distinct seasons, and the changes in temperature and humidity are large, so make sure you have the right clothes for the right season. The season’s characteristics and its suitable clothes are as follows:

  • The summer months from July through September are very hot and humid, and schools take their longest holidays during August.
  • Spring (March-May) and Autumn (September-November) are the most comfortable seasons. The rainy season (tsuyu) is in June and July.

Winter is from December to the end of February. The air is very dry, but it is cold enough for snow in most parts of the country, especially in the north.

An event called “koromogae, 衣替え” or “change of clothing” takes place throughout Japan in June and October. In June, school pupils change from winter to summer uniform, and businessmen change from dark winter suits to
ligh-colored summer suits. In October, everybody changes back again.

Since the Japanese sumer is extremely humid, winter is clothes should be aired thoroughly before being put away. Mothballs are a good idea, too.

Storage of Kimono:

  1. Fold neatly and put in the special chest called “tansu“.
  2. Do not forget the champor pads
Yukata with Japanese sandals

Yukata and sandals

The “yukata, 浴衣 is a light cotton “kimono”. It is a very simple garment, unlike the “kimono” proper, and is a common sight on a summer evening and therefore it is also called in english, “summer cotton kimono”.  Both men and women can wear “yukata”.

The “yukata” is ideal for relaxing in at home, for sleeping in, or for evening strolls. It is sometimes worn with a “haori” (half-coat).

When wearing the “yukata”,  the left side should over the right one (right over the left is used for dressing corpses). There are no buttons or zips; the “yukata” is held togehtehr by an “obi, or sash. Make sure “the obi” is tied neatly, and that the “yukata” does not flap open at the front.

Unless you want to be laughed at, wear “geta,下駄 (high wooden sandals) or “zori” (straw sandals), not shoes, with your “yukata”.

A nation of outstanding debts

By AMY CHAVEZ
(From The Japan Times)

Japan is a nation of favors. Thus the custom that when you see someone, you thank them for the last nice thing they did for you. “Thanks for taking me to the bank yesterday,” or “Thanks for dinner the other night.”

Such things are covered in the very vague, but appropriate phrase: “Senjitsu osewa ni narimashita” (literally, “the other day I was taken care of by you.”) This handy phrase can even double as a greeting.

Since all favors should be repaid in Japanese society, consider your mere arrival in the country as significant enough an event to plunge you into eternal debt. People will do a myriad of favors for you and if you’re like most people, you’ll be left wondering which people you can just say “Thank you” to and which people you also owe a return favor to. And how much.

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Kimono (Japanese Dress)

The kimono as known today first appeared as a formal outer garment in the Edo era, having evolved through gradual changes in the shape and color of the formal undergarments worn by the nobility in the Heian perod.

For the most part, Japanese people today wear Western clothing in their everyday life, but the traditional kimono is still popular both as formal attire and as clothing for the home.

The kimono worn by Japanese women are well known abroad for their beauty. By far the most gorgeous is the uchikake, a long overgarment worn by the bride in a wedding ceremony. The silk fabric is embroidered with gold and silver threads, most commonly in patterns of flowers or birds.

There are various types of kimonos. Those of married and unmarried women differ in design, color, sleeve length and other aspects. Women also wear kimonos of different fabrics, designs, patterns and cuts in accordance with the occasion – formal or informal. Japanese women ordinarily wear kimonos during the New Year holidys, or on such occasions as the coming-of-age ceremony, college graduation parties, wedding ceremonies and reception as well as funeral services.

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Mainichi Undo: Exercise Naturally Everyday

a Japanese riding bicycle

An elder Japanese riding bicycle

Talking about living so long and so healthy for most Japanese, food is no the only answer. Another factor is the automatic workout they get in their everyday lives. ‘The Japanese are in good health and in excellent shape,’ announce Time magazine in a 2004 cover story, ‘How to Live to Be 100′. The reason is that they are in active people who incorporate plenty of incindental exercise into their days’.

The older people of Japan are especially active. Makoto Suzuki, a professor at Okinawa International University, said, ‘As apposed to America, seniors in Japan do not have to purposedly go out and seek exercise — everyday life makes them more slim and healthy.’ Along with nutritious eating habits, he noted, ‘It’s a winning combination.’

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